Flirtation conducted at a very low speed
A Taurus Venus running the 5th house makes romance a sensory business rather than a dramatic one. You flirt by feeding people, sitting close and being reliably around, and your approach usually becomes obvious to its object some weeks after it began.
Delight follows the same rule. What you want from free time is texture rather than incident: something to taste, touch or make with your hands. A weekend packed with activities leaves you flat, while one long meal outdoors can keep you contented for a month.
You are perfectly willing to be adored
Unlike most people you do not squirm under appreciation. Being complimented, fed, touched and openly wanted is something you receive easily and want a lot of, which makes you unusually pleasant to be in love with. Say what you like out loud. Partners are often uncertain how much is welcome, and with you the honest answer is almost always more.
Gifts chosen by picking them up first
You give things you have handled: the jumper you checked the weight of, the food you tasted first, the object you would happily have kept. Nothing is ordered in a hurry from a description. It takes you longer than anyone else to shop and the result is that your presents are remembered for years, which is a fair trade.
What you make has a grain to it
Your creative taste runs to warm materials and honest surfaces: wood, wool, clay, food, anything that shows how it was made. Sleek and weightless things leave you cold however clever they are. Follow that preference in what you produce as well as what you buy, because the work you enjoy making is the only work you will keep making.
With children, the treats and the lap
Around children you are the source of physical comfort and small indulgences: the extra helping, the cuddle available on request, the ordinary day upgraded by something nice to eat. Children read this instantly as being loved. Somebody has to be the one who says no as well, so take a turn at it rather than leaving the whole job with the other adult.
Paid to make something people enjoy
The work that agrees with you produces pleasure for other people and has a physical result: food, materials, hospitality, objects, teaching a craft. Abstract or purely administrative roles drain you slowly and invisibly. If you are stuck in one, take the enjoyable thing seriously outside it, because on this placement it usually turns into the income eventually.
The one who says yes to the treat
In a household you are the softer authority, the one who provides comfort rather than enforces the rule, and children work this out within about a week. It is a genuinely valuable position and it needs a counterpart. Agree the boundaries with the other adults in advance so that your warmth is a choice you both made, not a gap somebody else has to cover.
Friends bring you their pleasures
People tell you about the meal they had, the thing they bought, the place they found, because your enjoyment of it is part of the fun for them. You are a very good audience for other people's delight. Offer your own list more often. Your recommendations are unusually reliable and you tend to keep them to yourself out of habit.
Enjoyment without a justification attached
The practice available here is letting pleasure be its own reason. You are quite capable of enjoying things and slightly less capable of doing so without framing it as earned, deserved or useful. Drop the framing once a week on purpose. Nothing in your life gets worse, and the enjoyment roughly doubles once it stops having to argue for itself.
Spending on the enjoyable, without the guilt
You spend real money on pleasure and then feel obscurely irresponsible about it, which spoils the pleasure without reducing the outlay. Decide the annual figure that goes on enjoyment, keep it separate, and let it be spent completely. The guilt was never protecting you from anything; it only took the edge off things you were going to buy regardless.