Not giving too much, simply no line
It is not generosity and it is not weakness. The boundary between you and whoever you are close to was never installed. Pluto in Pisces in the 7th house dissolves the edge in one-to-one bonds, so their mood becomes your weather without any decision from you.
Pluto crosses a sign slowly, so Pisces is the shared half here, the tone of a long span of birth years rather than anything about you. Your birth time supplied the 7th house, which is the individual half. It means the porousness is aimed at the person opposite rather than at your work or your home, which is why you can be entirely competent everywhere else and lose your outline within one relationship.
The pull towards whoever needs rescuing
On rescuing. You are drawn to people with something unresolved about them, and the pull is genuine rather than a pattern to be ashamed of. It also means you have repeatedly chosen the situation over the person. Ask what you would think of them if there were nothing to fix, since that answer arrives instantly and you have generally declined to hear it.
How the openness is misread
Some people receive it as unconditional acceptance, which is close to accurate, and a few recognise it as an absence of resistance and take what is available. Both happen and you rarely see the second coming. That is not a failure of judgement, it is that your attention is on their state rather than on their behaviour. Watch what somebody does over three months rather than how they seem.
What partners come to rely on
They rely on being understood without having to explain, which is the rarest thing you offer and the one they are least likely to name. It also means you frequently answer what they meant rather than what they said, and about a third of the time you have guessed wrong. Check occasionally: say what you think they meant and let them correct it. It takes ten seconds and prevents a fortnight.
Close, with an edge kept intact
What you need is not more distance, it is definition: something in your life that stays entirely yours while you are in a relationship. A practice, a friendship, an evening nobody else attends. It sounds like a defence against the person and it is nothing of the kind. It is the place you return to in order to remain somebody worth being close to.
You are the one who is never asked back
You listen to everybody and almost nobody asks about your week, and the imbalance has been in place so long that you no longer notice it happening. It is not that people are ungenerous; you simply never leave a gap for the question. Stop talking at the point where you would normally ask about them, and let the silence do the work instead.
You lose the outline and find it again
Your life has a rhythm of merging into something and then reconstructing yourself afterwards, and by now you have done it several times with relationships, jobs and places. The reconstruction always works, which is the reassuring part and also why you keep permitting the merge. Keep one thing constant across the next one, however small, since a fixed point makes the return considerably shorter.
Working for people rather than for a role
You commit to a person rather than to an organisation, and you will stay through poor pay and worse conditions for somebody you believe in. It has produced real loyalty in both directions and it has also kept you somewhere long past its usefulness. Ask whether you would take the job today from a stranger, and treat a clear no as information rather than as disloyalty.
Money lent inside the relationship
Sums move between you and whoever is close without ever being counted, in both directions, and neither of you could reconstruct the total. It feels generous and it is genuinely untraceable. Write down the last six months of it, privately, purely to see the shape. You are not preparing a case; you are finding out what has actually been happening.
You absorb what is between two other people
When two relatives are at odds you feel it physically and end up carrying the atmosphere for both of them, without either having asked you to. The absorbing is automatic and it is not help. Name whose feeling it is, silently and specifically, and leave it with them, since staying in the middle has never once resolved anything between them.