Falling for somebody involves a plan to go somewhere
Venus in Sagittarius in the 5th house means romance and adventure arrive together. Within about three weeks of being interested in somebody you are proposing a trip, and the proposal is not a device; going somewhere with a person is genuinely how you get to know them.
What attracts you is possibility rather than security: somebody with plans, opinions and somewhere they are heading. A person who is entirely settled holds no charge for you, however admirable they are in every other respect.
In love with what somebody could become
You see the potential in a person and respond to that, which is flattering and occasionally means you are in a relationship with a version of them that does not exist yet. Check in with the actual one. Ask what they want rather than telling them what they could do, since the second is a great deal more common with you.
Made in bursts of conviction
Your creative work happens when you believe in something, at speed and with real conviction, and then stops entirely when the belief moves elsewhere. The output is uneven and the good parts are very good. Work in forms that suit a burst, and finish within the burst, since nothing you have set aside has ever been picked up again.
Play that involves going outside
Your idea of enjoyment usually requires space, movement and some element of not knowing exactly what will happen. Indoor, structured, predictable recreation leaves you flat however well designed it is. Stop apologising for that and organise your free time around it, since the version you actually want is not the version anybody else is proposing.
With children, room rather than rules
Around children you give freedom, take them places, answer the large questions honestly and treat them as capable. Children flourish on that. What you supply less naturally is the boring structure, so make sure somebody is, since the freedom works best on top of a routine rather than instead of one.
You mistake a good argument for compatibility
Somebody who disagrees with you well is intoxicating, and you have built at least one relationship on the pleasure of the debate alone. Debate is not a shared life. Ask what the two of you would do together on a wet afternoon with nothing to settle, because that answer predicts far more than the quality of the conversation does.
You overdo the thing you are enthusiastic about
When something has your attention you go at it without moderation, and the injuries, the exhaustion and the abandoned enthusiasm all arrive together about six weeks later. The pattern is entirely predictable. Build a lower ceiling into anything new on purpose, since your own judgement about capacity is unavailable while you are enjoying yourself.
Work that lets you believe in it
You produce extraordinary effort for something you find meaningful and almost nothing for something you do not, and you cannot fake the second. That is a constraint rather than a preference. Choose work you can actually be persuaded by, since your output is not a function of discipline but of conviction.
The parent who takes them places
Children around you are treated as capable people: told the truth, taken along, asked what they think about matters most adults would not raise with them. That is a considerable inheritance. What has to be added deliberately is the dull repeating part, the same bedtime, the pickup that happens exactly when it was said it would, the week that looks like last week. Novelty lands best on a child who already knows what tomorrow contains.
Friends collected on the way somewhere
A striking number of the people you enjoy most were met while you were doing something: on a trip, on a course, in the middle of a plan. Shared activity is how attachment forms for you, and a friendship with nothing happening in it thins out quickly. Keep something in the diary with each of the people who matter, since the doing is the relationship rather than an occasion for it.