Count the days you worked through it and said nothing
Count the days you got through while something serious was going on and nobody at work had the faintest idea. Pluto in Scorpio in the 6th house puts depth and concealment into ordinary working life, so your daily competence has always been partly a matter of what you do not show.
The Scorpio half is not personal to you: it belongs to a birth cohort covering many years, since Pluto colours the whole span alike. The 6th house is what your birth time added, and it is the individual half. It aims the intensity at routine, method and the body, which is why the ordinary week is where your capacity is actually tested and where none of it is visible.
What was installed early
Somewhere behind this you learned that showing strain invites either interference or advantage-taking, and you drew the obvious conclusion. It arrived before you had the words for it. The rule has been running unchanged ever since, in workplaces where the people around you are perfectly decent and would help if they were told.
Where the privacy jams
You do not report difficulty until it has become a fact rather than a request, so nobody adjusts anything in time. From outside there was no warning. That is not stoicism, it is a decision you keep making. Say one thing early this quarter, before it is unavoidable, purely to find out what happens.
How the composure is read
Colleagues see somebody steady, unflappable and slightly unreadable, and they route the difficult work to you accordingly. It is a compliment and it is also a load that grows without discussion. Being the person who never says it is hard has a price, and the price is being given all the hard things.
Full depth, on ordinary tasks
You do not skim. Whatever the task, you take it to the bottom, and over years this produces a level of understanding of your work that very few colleagues reach. That is the genuine asset here. Make sure it is deployed on something worth the depth, since it will be spent at that level regardless of what you are given.
You will not stop while it is possible to continue
The threshold at which you would take a day off is set far higher than anybody else's, and you have proved repeatedly that you can keep going in conditions where others would not. That capability is real and it has been used against you, mostly by you. Set a rule in advance about when you stop, since in the moment you will always find one more reason to continue.
What the endurance built and what it cost
You can keep going through conditions that would stop most people, and that capability was assembled from experience rather than issued at birth. It has also meant staying in several situations far longer than was sensible, because leaving was never forced. Ask what you are currently enduring that has no end written into it, and put an end date on one of them.
Nobody knows what you earn
Your finances are private at work to a degree colleagues would find surprising, which protects you from comparison and also removes any way of knowing whether you are underpaid. Find the number for your role from an outside source this year, since the privacy has been costing you information you actually need.
Trusted with what nobody else is told
Colleagues bring you the things they cannot say anywhere else in the building, because you do not repeat them and because your face does not change when you hear them. It is genuine trust and it accumulates as weight that appears in no record. Notice how many situations you are currently holding, and set a number, since the flow has no reason to slow down by itself.
The practical crisis routes to you
When something serious happens to your relatives, you are the one who handles it: the arrangements, the difficult conversation, the part nobody else can face. You are extremely good at it. Ask somebody else to take one piece this time, not because you cannot, but because being the only capable person is a position that eventually has nobody in it.