The heat goes into whoever needs it, across the whole circle
Whatever force you have gets distributed across everybody you know. Mars in Pisces in the 11th house sends your energy into friendships and causes without much filtering, so what you offer a group is availability rather than direction.
The sign is why nothing is rationed and the house is why it is spread across a collective. That makes you the person a circle relies on emotionally, and it means the total of what you give in a year is considerable, unrecorded and impossible for anybody including you to see.
Friendship without conditions attached
You do not keep score, do not require reciprocity and rarely conclude that somebody has taken more than they gave. That generosity is genuine and it means the balance in some of your friendships is dramatic. Notice which ones, once, without doing anything about it. Seeing is enough to change how the next request lands.
The cause that found you
You did not select your commitments, you encountered them: the person who needed something, the situation you happened into, the thing you could not walk past. That is how everything you care about began. It works and it means your effort is allocated by whatever arrived most recently rather than by what matters most.
Drifting in, drifting out
Your involvement with a group rises and falls without any announcement, so long absences are followed by a return in which you behave as though nothing had occurred. To you the connection was continuous throughout. To everybody else it was a series of unexplained disappearances followed by an unexplained reappearance. Say that you are stepping back at the point you actually do it, however briefly, since the unexplained version is the one that gets remembered.
Belonging you never quite claim
You are plainly inside a circle and carry a private uncertainty about whether you count as a member of it, and no accumulation of invitations has ever settled the question. Looking for the answer in how people behave does not work, because the doubt does not live there and cannot be reached from outside. Ask one person directly, once. The reply will be immediate and slightly baffled, and the bafflement is the actual information.
The one everybody tells things to
People bring you what they cannot say elsewhere, in volume, and you receive all of it without ever passing any of it on. That is why your circle is closer than most and why a bad month for several people at once flattens you. Be unavailable occasionally, on purpose, and say so rather than disappearing.
Say specifically what you are looking for
The people who could help you have no idea what would be useful, because you have never described it in terms anybody could act on, and a general willingness to be thought of produces nothing. Write one sentence naming the exact thing: the role, the introduction, the kind of work. Vagueness is the reason a large and genuinely warm network has delivered so little.
Nobody can tell whether you have chosen
Inside a circle your warmth is distributed fairly evenly, so the person you are actually interested in receives roughly what everybody else receives and draws the obvious conclusion. Your signalling is the entire bottleneck. Do one thing that is unmistakably for them and not for the group, and make it obvious enough to be slightly uncomfortable.
Nobody ever gets invoiced
Money goes out of you towards other people continuously and in small amounts, and none of it is tracked because no individual item would justify the awkwardness of raising it. The annual figure is nonetheless substantial. Track one month without altering any behaviour at all, then look at the total and decide whether it is the one you would have chosen on purpose.
Several people struggling at once
A season in which a number of the people you are attached to are having a difficult time is, for you, a physically demanding season, and nothing in your own week explains any of it. That connection is worth making explicitly rather than concluding something about your stamina. When the flatness arrives, count who is currently in trouble before looking anywhere else.