The work has to matter or you cannot do it
Jupiter expands your 6th house from Scorpio, so the ordinary working day has to carry real weight: consequences, difficulty, something at stake. Trivial work is genuinely hard for you rather than merely dull. What this needs is a role where the difficult part is the job.
You take on the parts other people avoid and you take them on completely, which is why organisations end up depending on you for whatever cannot be handled lightly. That dependency is real and it is almost never written down anywhere.
Endurance that conceals its own cost
You can work through conditions that would stop most people, and nothing in your manner indicates the strain. The result is that help never arrives, because nobody has any reason to offer it. Say plainly when something is heavy, since your ordinary appearance under pressure is indistinguishable from your appearance when everything is fine.
Colleagues tell you what they cannot say upstairs
People at work bring you the thing they are frightened of: the mistake, the situation, the resignation they have not announced. You keep all of it. That is a position of considerable trust with no support attached, so find somebody outside the organisation to speak to in general terms, because holding this alone is what turns it into exhaustion.
Handing it over means trusting the outcome
Handing work over means trusting somebody else with the outcome, and your standard for that trust is high enough that most people never reach it. So the load stays with you permanently. Give one person one thing and let them do it badly, since the alternative is that your capacity remains the ceiling on everything.
The body reports only when it has to
Warnings reach you late because you overrule the early ones without noticing: the tiredness worked through, the appetite ignored, the week that should have been lighter. When something does stop you it is generally abrupt. Build a fixed rest into the schedule rather than waiting for a signal, since the signal is not coming.
None of it can be discussed at dinner
A good deal of what you do professionally cannot be described to anybody outside it: the case, the client, the situation that is still running and will be for months. That constraint is real and it isolates you steadily. Find one colleague in the same position to talk to, since the confidentiality is not the difficulty and having nowhere at all to put it is.
Work is how you have processed most things
When something difficult happens, you go to work, and the working is what gets you through it rather than any conversation. That is an effective strategy with one flaw: nothing actually gets addressed, only outlasted. Take one difficult thing to a person rather than to the desk, since the outlasting works and it leaves everything exactly where it was.
You are respected at work and barely known
Colleagues rate you highly and could tell you almost nothing about your life, because you have never volunteered any of it and they have learned not to ask. That is your arrangement rather than theirs. Say one ordinary personal thing this month, since the reserve is doing more work than the situation requires.
Somebody at home brings you every decision
One person in your household takes every serious question to you, because you are unflinching about difficulty and you never repeat anything afterwards. That trust is genuine and it is a standing obligation nobody has ever named out loud. Ask them to take one decision without you this year, since being the person who decides for somebody is not the same thing as helping them.
You stay in a job longer than it deserves
Leaving requires admitting that something is not going to improve, and your instinct is to endure rather than to conclude. That endurance has cost you two pay rises you would have got by moving. Set a date to review it rather than waiting for a moment of clarity, since the clarity is being suppressed by exactly the same capacity that keeps you there.