Home is private, and that is not negotiable
Abundance arrives through your 4th house wearing Scorpio: home is where the real life happens and almost nobody is admitted to it. A household with no privacy in it is unlivable for you. What this needs is one person inside the door who knows everything.
What you build domestically is deep rather than wide: few people, complete commitment, a base that would hold in any weather. That is a genuine achievement and it is invisible to everybody outside the door, which is precisely how you want it.
Undercurrents you inherited without explanation
Something in the household you came from was never said: a difficulty, a departure, an arrangement everybody worked around. You sensed all of it and nobody confirmed anything. That is where your instinct for what is being hidden was trained, so notice when you are applying it to households where nothing at all is being concealed.
Loyalty to whoever is inside
Your commitment to the people you live with is close to unconditional and it holds under considerable strain. Nothing about it is performed. Where it goes wrong is that loyalty can keep an arrangement running long after it stopped being good for anybody, so ask whether you are staying out of love or out of an unwillingness to be the one who left.
What was never discussed at that table
There is a subject your family has been not-discussing for decades, and everybody knows what it is. You have honoured the arrangement. Everybody has developed a way of steering around it in conversation. Say it once, plainly, to one person, because the silence has been maintained by each of you separately assuming it was required, and somebody has to test that.
You keep the house you have chosen
Moving is difficult for you, not from sentiment but because a base takes years to become genuinely secure and starting again is expensive in a currency nobody else counts. Weigh any move against that rather than against the rent. If you go, take the time to build the same depth again, since a house you have not settled into does not do the work.
You were remade by something at home
An event or a long condition in your household changed the shape of your life, and you have generally described it briefly and moved on. It is still doing work in the background. Tell the full version to somebody once, since the influence of an unexamined chapter does not diminish and the account of it can.
The property is held for security, not for show
What you own domestically is chosen for solidity: the place that cannot be taken, the arrangement nobody can unwind, the deposit that means you are not at anybody's mercy. That instinct is sound. Check the legal side is as solid as the intention, since here the assumption of security is doing a lot of work that the paperwork may not support.
They have to be able to keep a confidence
Living with somebody means handing over the private version of yourself, and you will not do it with anybody who repeats things. Discretion is the qualification here rather than affection. One person you were close to failed that test and the relationship never recovered. Watch how they speak about other people's private business, because whatever they do with it will eventually be done with yours.
You do not recover in company
Genuine rest for you requires being unobserved: a house full of people, however pleasant, is not restorative and never has been. That is a real constraint and it gets read as antisocial. Take the empty stretch at home rather than the holiday with company, since only one of them actually restores anything.
Very few people have been inside
The number of people who have been in your home is small and the selection was deliberate, whether or not you would put it that way. Admission is your version of trust. Invite one more person this year, since the threshold is currently set so high that even people who have earned it have not been asked.