You absorb whatever the workplace is feeling
Because Venus sits in Pisces in your 6th house, the emotional weather of wherever you work arrives in you directly. A tense office affects you within an hour, and you will carry other people's difficulties home without having discussed a single one of them.
That sensitivity is also why you are good at this. You notice who is struggling before anybody says so, and you do something about it quietly. The same faculty that makes the job possible is the one that makes a bad environment genuinely damaging.
Care given through the ordinary day
Your affection appears as small daily acts: covering for somebody, noticing what they needed, doing the part they were dreading. None of it is announced and it accumulates into something substantial. Say what you have been doing at review time, since work of this kind is invisible by design and never appears in any account of a role.
Boundaries that dissolve on contact
Asked to take something on, you agree before considering whether you can, and the workload arranges itself around whoever asks most often. That is not weakness; it is an absence of a mechanism. Buy time instead of answering: say you will check and come back, since the delay converts a reflex into an actual decision.
Routine that keeps slipping
Regular hours, meals and sleep are exactly what your constitution needs and exactly what you find hardest to maintain, and the structure erodes without any decision being made. Fix two anchors rather than a whole schedule, since two are achievable and a full routine has never survived a fortnight in your hands.
The body reports on everything taken in
You are more affected than most by what you consume and what surrounds you: food, drink, noise, atmosphere, the people you spend the day with. The effects are real and easily attributed to the wrong cause. Change one input at a time when something is off, since your system is sensitive enough for the experiment to work.
You need somebody who will say no on your behalf
A partner who notices when you have taken on too much and says something is worth more to you than any amount of romance, because you are not going to raise it yourself. Ask for that specifically, as a job you are handing over. Otherwise a well-meaning person watches the same pattern for years without ever realising they were permitted to interrupt it.
The colleague everybody offloads onto
People tell you their troubles at work because you listen properly, and by the end of the week you are carrying several situations that are nothing to do with you. The listening is valuable and the volume is not sustainable. Decline one conversation a week, kindly, since the supply here is unlimited and your capacity is not.
Insecure work costs you more than the money
Uncertainty about next month reaches you as a constant low anxiety that shows up in your sleep and in the quality of your output, and you will tolerate it for years rather than push for better terms. Instability is more expensive for you than for most people. Weigh a lower but certain figure seriously, since predictability is genuinely worth money in your particular case.
A day with an edge to it
Left unstructured, your working life fills entirely with other people's requirements and dissolves at both ends. You are not going to become a disciplinarian about it. Fix a start and a finish and defend only those two, since edges are what you lack and the middle looks after itself once they exist.
The caring at home and the caring at work
If somebody in your household needs looking after, you will be doing that as well as a full day of essentially the same thing elsewhere, and you are unlikely to describe either as a burden. The two together exceed what anybody could sustain indefinitely. Ask for one of them to be reduced, in specific terms, since nobody who cannot see the total is ever going to offer.