Wanting and having are measured with one ruler
Growth reaches you Taurus-flavoured and it lands in the 2nd house, which means what you want and what you own end up measured with the same ruler. Scarcity unsettles you more than most. What this needs is a floor set high enough to stop the worry and low enough to leave you moving.
This is a comfortable arrangement and its comfort is the difficulty. Resources tend to arrive steadily and stay, so the question in your life is almost never how to get more; it is what the accumulating is actually for, and that question does not answer itself.
Value that grows simply by being kept
The things that have made you money are largely the things you did not sell: the house, the skill practised for fifteen years, the client kept through two bad patches. Patience is a genuine investment strategy and it happens to be your temperament as well. Trust it further than you do. The holdings you regret are almost always the ones you released early to feel decisive.
Generosity handed over as goods
You give in kind rather than in cash: the food sent home, the tool lent indefinitely, the spare room, the lift that took two hours. It is substantial help and it is rarely counted as such by anybody, including you. Say what it costs occasionally, not as a complaint but as information, since people cannot value what they have never seen priced.
Nothing here wants to be sold
Letting go of anything with value in it feels wrong at a level below argument, which is why cupboards fill and holdings outlive their usefulness. Some of that instinct has protected you. The rest is weight. Set one date a year for deciding what leaves, and make the decision on the day rather than in the moment of parting.
A floor is not the same as a fortress
Enough security to stop the anxiety is a genuine requirement for you and worth building early. Past that point the building continues on its own momentum, and the money stops doing anything except sitting there being safe. Decide the number that would be enough, write it somewhere, and then let everything above it be for spending on something.
Paid for staying, not for arriving
Your earnings improve with tenure in a way that other people's do not: the fifth year in one place pays you better than five first years in five places would. That is unusual and it is worth planning around rather than fighting. Choose the employer or the trade you can imagine in a decade, and let the compounding do work that job-hopping never would.
Enough is a number, not a feeling
Left to instinct, the sense of having enough never quite arrives, because the instinct measures against a rising line rather than against a figure. Naming the figure is the whole of the remedy. Write down what would genuinely constitute security for you, including the boring details, and revisit it once every few years rather than every anxious Sunday.
You are the one they can borrow from
Relatives know you have something put by, and the requests arrive accordingly, usually framed as temporary. You almost always say yes, and the repayment almost always goes unmentioned by both sides. Decide in advance what you would give outright, and give that instead of lending, because a gift ends and a loan sits in the room for years.
Friendships kept in objects and repetition
You maintain people through tangible things: the same table, the annual meal, the thing you always bring. It is a durable way to hold a friendship and it does not travel well when somebody moves away. Send a physical thing to the one who left, because for you the object is the message and a note on its own is not.
Comfort is your default response to strain
When a week goes badly, your correction is sensory: better food, a long bath, an early night, more of whatever is soothing. It works, which is why it is rarely examined. The trouble arrives when the soothing becomes the whole of the answer and nothing changes about the week. Keep the comfort and add one thing that shifts the cause.