Partnership is both the subject and the setting
Jupiter expands your 7th house from Libra, and here the sign and the territory are the same thing: being with somebody is simultaneously your talent and your terrain. Long stretches alone leave you underused. What this needs is a preference of your own that survives the other person.
Almost everything good in your life has arrived attached to a partner, a collaborator or a counterpart. That is a genuine mechanism rather than luck, and it means the quality of your judgement about people is the single most consequential thing about you.
You are unusually good at being with somebody
The daily business of a relationship, noticing, adjusting, keeping the thing pleasant, comes to you as naturally as anything you do. Very few people are actually skilled at this. Keep the ability and notice when it is being spent on somebody who is contributing nothing to the arrangement, since capability here has consistently outlasted your judgement.
Terms that stay generous past sense
Whatever the arrangement, your half of it tends to be the accommodating one, and each concession was reasonable at the time. The total is now visible to everybody except you. Write down what each of you actually does, since a fair-minded person is remarkably easy to take advantage of and almost never notices from inside.
Knowing what you want alone is hard
Asked what you would like, in the absence of anybody to consider, you frequently cannot say. That is not indecision so much as a preference organ that only works in company. Restaurants are the small daily version of it. Practise on small things by yourself, since the question gets much harder later and the answer will be needed.
You will not be the one who leaves
Ending things falls outside what you can comfortably do, so arrangements continue past their point by months or years, generally until the other person acts. Nothing about that is loyalty. Decide what would constitute enough, in advance and in writing, because in the moment you will find a reason to stay pleasant.
You are looking for a genuine equal
What you want is not devotion or excitement but symmetry: two people of comparable weight, neither carrying the other. That is a demanding specification and worth holding out for. Notice within the first year whether the arrangement is level, since here an imbalance never corrects itself and you will accommodate it indefinitely.
A room with a tension in it stops being enjoyable
A gathering with something unresolved running through it is not enjoyable for you however good the company otherwise is, and you will spend the evening quietly working on it instead of on anything else. Nobody asked you to do that. Let one awkward evening simply be awkward, since the repairing exhausts you and is rarely as necessary as it feels at the time.
You do your best work opposite someone
Consultancy, representation, advising, anything where there is a client or a counterpart to work with: this suits you far better than any solitary discipline. You sharpen against another mind. Arrange the work so there is always somebody on the other side of it, and stop trying to become the sort of person who thrives alone.
You joined their household as a diplomat
Marrying into a family, you became the one who smooths things: the buffer, the person both sides talk to, the one who makes occasions go well. It is skilled work performed for people you did not choose. Decline one mediation this year, since a position taken up voluntarily becomes an expectation surprisingly quickly.
Your life divides into chapters named after people
Looking back, the periods of your life are marked out by relationships rather than by jobs or addresses, and each one produced a recognisably different version of you. That is how the record honestly reads, whatever you would put on a form. Write those chapters out once, since the pattern tells you considerably more about your own choices than any account of your career would.